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Any other women virgins on their honeymoons?

I am getting married in March, and both my fiance and I are virgins! We are really excited to have our honeymoon night. Any good CLEAN advice on how to make our night extra special? By the way, I am 24 and he will be 27 on the wedding day. I don't watch Sex in the City, but I do believe that it is honoring to God and my future husband to wait until God makes us one spiritually before we are one physically.

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Honey it will be special because it's your first time but it won't be good. It's going to hurt and isn't going to be like in the movies.
Just enjoy the night.
It will be special because it's with your husband, best friend, and partner in crime! For the night, I would say, mix a cd of slow love songs. Not raunchy sex songs, sweet songs. If you're a drinker, pour a glass of champagne for the two of you. Light a few candles. Relax! Maybe you two could take a dip in the jacuzzi just to get comfortable with being naked together. Just do what feels natural. It may be slightly painful for you because it's your first time. But, just ask him to go slow and be gentle with you! You have the rest of your lives to experience each other and try new things. So, just stick to the basics and try to go with the flow. Congratulations and good luck!
Sounds neat. I'd say just try to keep it relaxed and special, and take it slow. People say that you should always use foreplay on your first time but honestly, I don't see a point. It always hurts on your first time(even if you lost your hymen horseback riding) so foreplay seems totally unnecessary. So I would say relax, do what feels right and natural, and congratulations. For extra specialness? Hmm that's a hard one. I'd say avoid the stereotypes like rose pedals and candles(unless you're into that) and again, whatever feels right. Wear some expensive lingerie that makes you feel beautiful, and some special perfume.
My dad always told me "Don't buy the car without taking a test drive." You don't want to end up like Charlotte on Sex and the City, do you?
Congrats on your choice! I'm doing the same thing, but me and my fiance are 19. I couldn't wait another 5 years, lol. You should be so proud of yourself and your love. As for advice, relax, don't be scared, and take your time! Also, if you're tired on your wedding night, don't sweat it. Take a nice shower together, get to know each other a little bit, and sleep. You'll have plenty of time on the honeymoon. Good luck!
my hubby was a virgin when we got married, it was so sweet, i'm proud of you, i got raped when i was 17 so i lost it then, not willingly but it still counts i guess, have a great marriage/honeymoon, it will be special because it's your first time with your hubby.
This suggestion might not be popular or what you're looking for, but give it some consideration. Don't do it on the wedding night. There's too much pressure, you're both going to be tired from the wedding, it's just a pressure-cooker for a bad experience. I know you might be bursting at the seams, but waiting until it just happens naturally would probably be a much better idea than planning some extravagant wedding night and wanting things "perfect" after partying all night and dealing with family and the wedding.
It's already special, since it's with your husband, it's the first time for both of you, and you just got married. You don't need to make it more special. You instead need to have realistic expectations (which you may have, I don't know). OK, so, it will be really really short because it's his first time. But it will be painful for you--unless you see a gynecologist beforehand and he removes your hymen. No reason for extra pain, you know? But I guess most women don't do that, so no need for you to go if you don't want to. Depending on your knowledge of anatomy, it could also be confusing, figuring out what goes where. Make sure you have that knowledge beforehand. Also, bring lube--like Astroglide, or KY Jelly. These are important because you'll be really tight the first time, and it will hurt, so lubrication always improves things. Seriously just get it. If you don't need it, then great. But it's much better to have and not need, than need and not have. You can get it at any drugstore. The Sex and the City reference was to the character of Charlotte, who, while not a virgin, decided, along with her guy, to wait till the wedding night to have sex for the first time with each other. Unfortunately, she discovered that he "couldn't get it up". Eventually, they were able to address the problem and resolve it. But it took awhile. They of course did that for comedic purposes. but I mention it because it's important to keep in mind that, while it will be special, it will also be awkward and strange and you might not enjoy it physically, and you shouldn't be too disappointed. It will get better with practice. It takes a year to learn how to walk. This will take time to learn, too.
I will be a virgin until my wedding in June. So obviously I don't have any advice, just wanted to say good for you sticking to what you believe! I'm glad I made the decision to wait as well : ) Congrats to you girl
Virgin here, getting married in May. Im in the same exact situation, I say we just let it happen. And a lot of people keep telling me to have lubrication on hand. So thats really all I know. Congrats on waiting, believe me I know its tough!!! Have a great wedding and a happy life!
I was a virgin too when I got married in October. Your night will be special regardless because it's your first time ever and your first time with your husband. We lit some candles and put on music, but that's all and that was enough for us. Wear something that makes you feel beautiful, but not uncomfortable or it will only make you nervous. You will be so focused on your husband, you probably won't even notice the details! :) I will say, it was more difficult at first than I anticipated it would be, so just try to have fun together and enjoy just being together without high expectations. The more you learn about one another the better it gets. Luckily, you have the honeymoon to practice! Congrats & best wishes :)