What is the point of honeymoons?
All you do is pay a bunch of money to have sex. your having it so much you don't even really get out of the room. So whats the point can't you just do that at home?
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- It is in a different environment so it makes it special and something you can look back on and remember.
- this is suitsble in indian culture ,but in western they alredy don befoure marriage
- It is also an event that allows the bride and groom to get away from all daily distractions and focus on each other only.
- I'm agree with U but it's traditionnal. But like U say it could be better at home. Girls like honeymoon somewhere they don't know like an island like hawai,it make us feel like preincess
- Exactly!!! The bedroom is the best place for a honeymoon.
- Yeah, they are kinda outdated now that everyone is having pre-marital sex. It used to be part of the ritual to consumate the marriage. I wouldn't bother with a honeymoon, unless it was paid for by my relations as part of the wedding gift.
- I completely agree with you man. Why wasting so much money when u can just have sex at home. Believe me, if there is true love, honeymoon can be anywhere and everywhere. I think its too overrated by tourism people who just want to make money on the cost of fooling people in love. So people, next time dont go to Switzerland just for the sake of honeymoon, when u r there, explore the place n have fun. Do more outdoor activities together and make the most out of your money instead of just laying in bed.
- i think honeymoon is only for those who get married virgins,and no need for those who get married just because the girl is already month or months pregnant
- PEOPLE YEARS AGO.... had honey moons as they were suppoe to be the first time the husband and wife have sex and try to bear a child this was partly because of the church,, in recent years they have just been a time to relx after the wedding
- you celebrate the new you as a truly committed couple alone. you bond and have a solitary shared experience with the person you chose and vowed yourself to in front of everyone at the wedding. it's an experience outside of just sex, it represents that you two alone are now one in the world, apart from your daily lives. and you get to be extra loud if you have neighbors at home, of course ;-)
- I see honeymoons as a nice and more importantly relaxing time for a newly married couple. Think about it in terms of this:for the length of your engagement most couples have been stressed about money, time, futures, etc, all the things that go along with wedding planning and planning for the rest of their lives together. The stress only becomes greater as the wedding day approaches as do the arguments and petty disagreements. A honeymoon is a time after the wedding to really reconnect and enjoy each other's company and kind of redisocver why you wanted to get married in the first place. If you decide against the honeymoon away and opt to stay at home I think you really arent relaxing, you will do chores, run errands, basically get right into your new "titles" of husband and wife and you will miss out on being "honeymooners". I think every couple deserves some time to come down after a wedding and to be alone where you just enjoy each other and the memory of your wedding.
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- we are romantic by nature we go in a honeymoon in a romantic place and sex is a big part of it but the memories lingers if sex is the most important in our life and not marriage why get married why spends all that money in our wedding day why not just get a partner and have sex in street in the park or any corners at least you will not spend any money we got married because it is one of the most important part of adulthood and we like good memories and honeymoon is the best romantic time of your marriage
- That's not necessarily true. I doubt when we get married next year that it will be an all-out sex-fest. We enjoy travelling, and my fiancee has his own business which keeps him at work at least 12 hours a day, almost every day. The honeymoon is a chance for us to be alone together, without the disruptions of the business. It is also nice for the new couple to get away after the stress of the wedding planning and day itself to spend time just the 2 of you.
- Its about getting away from it all, and starting a new milestone with your husband/wife. Getting pampered at an all-inclusive resort and not having a care in the world.
- Its a VACATION! Just a way to relax after the wedding. Its not just for sex, its for travel, sightseeing, relaxing on the beach or wherever. Don't you like to take vacations?
- It's not just to have sex. You can do that anytime and just about anyplace. A honeymoon is a chance for you and your husband to focus on one another entirely. No work, no phone, no stress, just you and him. Historically, I'm not sure why, but that seems to be the traditional reason for them.
- The honeymoon originated from an ancient practice where newly wedded couples drank mead (a wine made from fermented honey) for an entire month after the wedding in order to increase their fertility (hence: honey moon). Moden tradition stems from this and those exotic, expensive trips you mention probably have a lot more to do with the million dollar wedding industry. Personally I think a honeymoon is a nice tradition. Planning a wedding is stressful, what better time to take a little vacation, and who better to take it with? :)
- I think it has something to do traditionally of getting away for the families and bonding as a couple
- I'm glad I had a honeymoon. It was our last vacation alone. Three months later I was pregnant. For goodness sake enjoy your time as just a couple!!!
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